Valentine's Day is fast approaching, and for many people it is their once a year attempt at creating some kind of energy around their sexual and romantic love life. After all, there is an actual day to celebrate love, sex and relationship! No matter how sexually asleep your relationship is, Valentine's Day is a command performance. Now, this blog is for the guys, but ladies—please pass this on to the men in your life! Facebook it, email it, or print it out and put it under his pillow.